Former Big Brother Naija housemate, Tolani Shobayo professionally known as TBaj has set the internet ablaze with her controversial teaching for men on how to lure women.
TBaj posted her notion on Twitter, saying that a man can get a woman of his choice by enticing her with money and other meaningful material things.
She said that the simplest way to stand out from other men vying for her attention in her social media DMs is to offer women money.
She sees this as a wake-up call for males because, in 2023, they should no longer wonder why a women isn’t reacting to them if they aren’t giving her money.
In her words, Tolani said: “If you like a babe, send her gifts and send her money. Simple.
“This is the easiest way to stand out from the rest of the men in her dms.
Stop wondering why she isn’t showing any interest.
“It’s 2023. Wake up.”
However, this perspective has received a range of responses from social media users, with some criticising the reality star and others speculating as to when a friendship or adoration changed into a means of escaping poverty.
A certain Omotayo replied TBaj , saying: “Don’t objectify women, women are not commodity. You can’t buy women with money.
“Same woman: I’ll only consider the person who send me highest gift and money, you people are not ready.”
Clinton on the other hand seconded the notion, saying: “If you’re a guy and you’re calling TBAJ Olosho fort this, then I pity the kind of guy you’re.
“You don’t expect a girl to reply to your ‘Hi, I like you’ DM over a guy that bought her lunch or sent her an Uber to take her home or sent her a gift. Guys wake up.”
With the influx of attacks the post has generated, Tolani has taken to Twitter to defend herself again, where she tweeted: “Cry today, cry tomorrow. There’s absolutely no shame in wanting to be spoiled and pampered.”